Ep 426: The Trust Tax: When Discernment Is Really Fear in Disguise
This is the 6th part of the Hidden Taxes That Are Costing Your Millions Series
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" Certainty is not a prerequisite for action. It is a reward for it."— Dr. Darnyelle Jervey Harmon
Waiting isn't always wisdom. Sometimes it's fear with better branding. You've prayed about it, researched it, talked to your mentor, asked your mastermind, Googled it and maybe even asked ChatGPT, yet you're still sitting on the same decision you already knew you needed to make. That's not always discernment. Sometimes you're waiting for something clarity can never give you: a guarantee that you won't fail. And while you're calling the delay responsible, opportunities are closing, momentum is dying, your team is waiting and the decision you refuse to make is quietly making itself. Because indecision isn't neutral. Every day you don't choose, you're choosing the status quo. Welcome to The Trust Tax.
There is a decision you already know you need to make. You've probably called the delay strategy, due diligence, wisdom or discernment, but what if you're not actually waiting for clarity? What if you're waiting for a guarantee that you won't fail? In part six of the Hidden Taxes Series, we're exposing The Trust Tax, the hidden cost of analysis paralysis, second-guessing yourself, overthinking business decisions and waiting for certainty before you move. We're unpacking the difference between discernment and fear-based delay, why indecision costs CEOs money and momentum, and what changes when you finally trust yourself, trust your discernment and trust God enough to move without seeing the whole staircase.
Here’s the truth: indecision is still a decision. Every day you refuse to choose, you are choosing the status quo, and that choice is costing you opportunities, momentum, money and trust in your own knowing.
You’ll walk away with a sharper ability to tell the difference between true discernment and fear pretending to be wisdom. You'll recognize the five signs that you're paying the Trust Tax, discover why your demand for certainty is quietly slowing your business, and learn three practical ways to move from frozen to faithful. The game changer is realizing that clarity isn't always what allows you to move. Sometimes moving is what finally gives you clarity.
Grab your Move to Millions Podcast Notebook, a pen and your favorite beverage and listen in to discover:
✔ How to distinguish true discernment from fear-based delay
✔ How to make faster, faith-led decisions
✔ How to recognize when research, preparation, prayer and seeking advice have crossed the line
✔And so much more
This episode is a call stop calling every delay discernment. If you already know what needs to happen but keep asking for confirmation, more information may not be what you're missing. Courage might be..
This is your invitation to name the decision you've been circling and ask yourself what you're really waiting for. Because the guarantee you want may never come, but the opportunity you're delaying absolutely can leave.
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- "At some point, learning becomes the most sophisticated form of procrastination that there is in the world."
- "Real discernment leads you somewhere. Fear keeps you circling the same question for a long period of time."
- "Indecision is not the absence of a decision. It is the decision to stay exactly where you are."
- "Learning to move without certainty is not recklessness. It is indeed faith."
- "The clarity that you are waiting for is on the other side of the decision."
- What would I do right now if I trusted myself completely?
- What decision do I already know I need to make, but keep researching, praying about or discussing because I want a guarantee before I move?
- Am I actually waiting for information I need, or am I waiting for the fear to disappear?
- What has my indecision already cost me in money, momentum, opportunities, peace or leadership credibility?
- Where have I been calling something discernment because admitting that I'm afraid would require me to finally act?
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[00:00:00] The people who did indeed make the change reported being substantially happier six months later than those who did not do the thing. 20,000 people flipped a coin
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There is a decision you already know that you need to make, and you have known you need to make this decision for a while, and yet you are [00:02:00] still waiting as if the delay will make the decision for you It won't. You're telling yourself you are waiting for clarity or for the right time or for confirmation or for a little bit more information or whatever you are telling yourself.
But let me tell you the truth, because someone has to. You are not waiting for clarity. You already have clarity. You are waiting for a guarantee that this will work out, that you will not fail, that you'll do it right, that it will achieve the results that you know are possible. And that is an entirely different thing.
And let's be clear, that guarantee is never coming. So you'll just be waiting forever and call it wisdom or being intentional or strategic. Welcome back to the series where we are auditing the eight hidden taxes that will never show up on a financial statement, but are quietly draining your capacity for wealth, for leadership, for impact, and good old-fashioned [00:03:00] peace.
Now, in this series so far, we have covered five of the hidden taxes: survival, approval, control, hustle, and last week we got into the biggest one, the receiving tax. Now, if you have not watched at least the episode on the receiving tax, my personal recommendation is that you go back and you check it out because it is at the heart of this entire series.
And in this episode, we are talking about the tax that keeps brilliant people just like you frozen in place for months, sometimes years, while they wait for something that is never going to show up. Today, my friends, we are talking about the trust tax, waiting for a clarity that is never coming. And here's what I mean, 'cause let's be honest, right?
Like, if you are paying this tax, and more than likely you are, this tax has two faces, and most high achievers are paying both of them. The first face is the [00:04:00] trust. You do not fully trust yourself, your team, timing, even God. So what do you do? You hesitate. You second-guess. You hold back. And the second face is certainty.
You will not move until you are sure, until you have a 100% money-back guarantee, until every doubt is gone and every fear that you might fail is squelched. And when you put those two together, you get one sentence that has been running your whole life. "I cannot move until I know that this is going to be a success."
And here's the problem with that. Knowing that you are waiting is one thing, but waiting for a guarantee that will never happen is an entirely different thing. And so you're waiting, and that waiting is indeed the tax. So here's the question I want you to be asking yourself as you listen to this episode.
What would you do right now, today, if you trusted yourself completely? [00:05:00] You are watching or listening to the Move to Millions podcast, and I am your host, Dr. Darnyelle, award-winning CEO of Incredible One Enterprises, a business transformation company that makes it our business to transform the soul and strategy of entrepreneurs and small business owners just like you.
I am also the founder and creator of several powerful business growth systems and frameworks, including the Move to Millions method. This is part six of our latest series, The Hidden Taxes That Keep You From Making, Moving, and Eventually Leaving Millions. And if you have been stuck in a holding pattern, gathering information that you do not need in order to avoid a decision that you have already made, this episode is for you.
I love coming into your life every single week. This podcast is my love letter to business, and I pour my anointing into every episode because I love God, I love [00:06:00] money and wealth, I love business and entrepreneurship, and there is nothing that brings me more joy than fusing them all together for you every single week.
Now, I have to be honest with you, I can only think of a few times when I have ever paid the trust tax. In general, I am the girl who's too dumb to doubt that God is God, and if he said it, he will make it good. Like, I believe him like that. I trust him and I trust myself implicitly. And so it has been my experience that because I trust him, he gonna work it out.
He's got my back. He always had my back, and I don't have to ever worry about my back. So there's probably only ever been a few seasons in my life or business where I was actually paying the trust tax. There have been times when I knew what I was supposed to do. I mean, I knew it in my gut, I knew it in my spirit, I had prayed about it, I had gotten the answer quickly.
And then I did what so many high-achieving, faith-driven [00:07:00] entrepreneurs and small business owners do. I paused. I asked again. I prayed again. I sought confirmation again. I went back to God for confirmation of the confirmation. You've done it. We've all done it, right? I've asked mentors, I've asked my circle, I've gathered more opinions, I've read another book, I Googled it.
These days, I might have put it into ChatGPT or Claude if I were doing it now, and just sat with it a little bit longer, telling myself that I was being prayerful, I was being wise, I was being discerning, when the fact of the matter is not only did the answer not change, but I was really just being a scaredy-cat It was the same answer I'd gotten originally.
I was just hoping that if I waited long enough, the fear that I felt attached to the answer would actually disappear before I had to act on it. Like, I literally would keep asking God to confirm what he had already told me. That, my friends, is not discernment. That is disobedience. Hey, I hate to [00:08:00] interrupt the goodness that's happening right now in this episode, but I need you to do me a quick favor.
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And here is what it cost me. It cost me opportunities that needed a yes while I was still deliberating. It cost me momentum that I lost while I was trying to be cautious, while I was waiting in fear. It cost me peace, peace that I forfeited carrying an open undecided loop in my mind for weeks or months at a time, because let's be clear, an unmade decision does not just sit there quietly.
It taxes you. It vexes you. It sits in your spirit and it taunts you every single day that you [00:09:00] refuse to make the decision, right? And we know what the universe says. The universe says, once you decide, or Emerson said, says, once you decide, all of the universe rearranges itself. And of course, the universe loves speed, not hates speed.
And this is about realizing the manifestation based on the provision of all of it. And when you don't have the answer and you don't move, you are minimizing the very impact that you're praying for. And in my mind these days, it's very black and white. Either you trust God and therefore you trust yourself, or you don't, period.
There is no in between and there's no holding trust in your heart and holding and waiting. Like, there is none of that. That's what I know today, but I didn't always know that. I also know that there's a really deep cost that impacts us spiritually when we don't trust ourselves and we don't trust God.
Because every time I ask God to repeat himself, it was like I was telling God that I did not trust him and I did not trust what he said the first time. I have amazing, [00:10:00] impeccable hearing of the Holy Spirit, and if I acted like I didn't trust him, it just meant that I didn't believe it. So I would have to repent and I would have to learn a new way to, to move.
Not a reckless move, not a hasteful move, but a faithful move, which means moving before I could see the whole picture because that is what faith actually is. And here's what I know. When we give God something to bless, he can indeed bless it But it's important for us to be honest with ourselves and be honest when we don't trust.
It makes you human. Now, I'm not the only one who thinks this, and there's some fascinating data out there about it. Steven Levitt from the University of Chicago, he's an economist behind Freakonomics, if you've heard of it. He ran a remarkable experiment where he gathered more than 20,000 people who were genuinely stuck on making a big decision.
Decisions like, should I quit my job? Should I end this relationship? Should I make this move? Should [00:11:00] I do something magnanimous, right? People who were truly torn with a decision. And he did something kind of quirky and weird. He had them flip a coin. Heads, make the change, tails, keep things the same. Then he followed up with them two months and then six months later to see what happened.
And here is what he's found. I thought this was really fascinating. The people whose coin told them to make the change were significantly more likely to actually make the change. And regardless of which way it went, the people who did indeed make the change reported being substantially happier six months later than those who did not do the thing.
20,000 people flipped a coin. I mean, I know that kinda trivializes it. But at the same time, the ones that were nudged to make the change were happier six months later And here's what [00:12:00] I realize, is that we are all far too cautious for our own good. And Levitt's own conclusion was that people are excessively cautious when facing big choices, and that a good rule of thumb is this: when you cannot genuinely decide, choose the option that represents change, not the option that represents the status quo.
I want y'all to sit with that for a second, 'cause I'll be honest, when I read that I was like, "Okay." I mean, that's a different take, but I think it makes sense because change is inevitable, right? The thing that you fear is begging you to avoid the change, the move, the leap, but that thing is statistically the thing that will make you happier on the flip side.
Now, I have to remember, and I want you to remember also, that everything you desire is on the other side of your fear. Your bias towards waiting is not protecting you, it is actually costing you. And as the data shows us, it's a whole thing. Now, you might be wondering, "Darnyelle, am I really [00:13:00] paying the trust tax?"
Well, here are some signs to let you know that you might be paying the trust tax if, number one, you research endlessly. If you buy the course, then another course, then you go get the certification, and you think because you've got the credentials, it'll make all the difference. But after you get the credentials, you still read another book, and then you listen to another podcast, and then you watch another video.
You tell yourself you are getting ready, but you are actually no closer to deciding. You are just more informed about the decision that you are still not making. Now, here's the thing. At some point, learning becomes the most sophisticated form of procrastination that there is in the world. More information is not what you need, and it is not what you are missing.
What you are missing, my friend, is courage. All right. The second sign that you might be paying the trust tax is that you are waiting for a sign. You wanna be sure, you wanna know that you know, you want a money-back 100% [00:14:00] guarantee. You need a green light. You want confirmation. You want the heavens to open.
You want the bush to burn without being consumed. You want someone to ride in on a donkey. You need more confirmation because that is what will give you permission to commit. So you wait for the perfect conditions, the perfect timing, the unmistakable sign. But here's what I need you to know and understand.
Certainty is not a prerequisite for action. It is a reward for it. You will get clarity after you move, not before. I say all the time, God will give you more while you're moving than he ever will if you stand still. So if you're waiting for 100% certainty, you will be waiting for the rest of your life, period.
Sign number three You second-guess every decision that you have already made. You decide and then you wind it back. You commit and then you change your mind. You keep literally trying to drive your car with your foot on the gas and the brake at the same time. You say yes, and then you spend [00:15:00] three days wondering if you should have said no.
You cannot trust your own decision long enough to let it work and let it land to anchor into it. And a decision that you keep re-deciding is a decision that actually never gets the chance to produce the results that you keep saying you wanna bring into your life experience because you keep yanking it out of the ground to check the roots to see if it's growing.
Sign number four that you might be paying the trust tax is that you either outsource your decisions or you decide by community. You poll everyone. You need a consensus. You ask your spouse if you have one, your mentor, your mastermind, your group chat, people on the street while you're in the grocery store, your followers.
You have collected so many opinions that you become more confused than when you first started trying to make the decision. Now, don't get me wrong, I believe that asking for wise counsel is good. The Bible says you should have a multitude of advisors. But there is a point where seeking [00:16:00] input becomes a way of avoiding ownership and taking action so that if it does not go wrong, you get to say it wasn't your fault.
And let's be clear, that is not collaboration. That is fear. Just distributing the blame in advance to other people. The fifth sign is that you call it discernment when, my friend, you know it's fear. This is the one that I have to say really carefully and loving because I'm not coming for you right now.
And I get it. I, too, am a woman of deep faith, and I do take discernment seriously. But precisely because I take it seriously, I have to be honest with you. Sometimes what we call praying is actually hiding Sometimes waiting on God is code for I'm afraid and I don't like what God already said, so I'm gonna just keep waiting to see if he changes his mind.
Real discernment leads [00:17:00] you somewhere. Fear keeps you circling the same question for a long period of time. If your waiting has no end in sight, it is worth asking whether you are seeking God's voice or avoiding the answer he already gave you. Sorry, not sorry. Now, as you listen to those signs, if three or more of them landed for you, I want you to hear me.
You do not have an information gathering problem, and you do not even have a discernment problem. You, my friend, have a trust problem, and it is dressed up in the most respectable clothes of all, prudence and prayer. And no amount of additional certainty will free you because let's be honest, the certainty that you are waiting for is not coming.
You're gonna have to step out on faith. That's why they say step out on faith. Now, let me tell you what this tax is actually really costing you because I think it's sneakier than some of the others. [00:18:00] If you've been doing all the right things but still feel like you're carrying more weight than you should, it's not your strategy, it's your pattern.
There's a hidden way that you lead that's shaping your money, your success, and your peace. And until you see it, you'll keep working harder than you have to. The Ascension Archetypes Quiz shows you in just three minutes what's been driving your business behind the scenes and what needs to shift so that you can finally experience the overflow you're desiring.
It's fast, it's free, and it will give you the language for why things feel harder than they should right now. Go now to movetomillionsquiz.com to find out which archetype is running your business today My best-selling book, Move to Millions: The Proven Framework to Become a Million-Dollar CEO with Grace and Ease Instead of Hustle and Grind, is now available on Audible.
That's right, you can listen to nugget after nugget, strategy after [00:19:00] strategy, and chapter after chapter designed to help you to position your business for seven figures with grace and ease instead of hustle and grind. Go to Audible today to get your Audible copy of Move to Millions. And that's because it does not cost you in those dramatic, visible ways.
It costs you in the quiet currency of all the things that never happened because you would not make a decision. And remember, indecision is still a decision, and every delayed decision has a price, and you usually never see the invoice because it is the cost of the thing that you did not get. The deal that went to the person who moved faster.
We've all been there, done that. Oh my gosh, I could tell you stories. The window that closed. The client you were supposed to follow up with but didn't, and when you finally called them back, they had just hired someone else. The compounding growth you forfeited by waiting six months to get started. And here's the [00:20:00] part that should reframe everything for you.
Again, indecision is not the absence of a decision. It is the decision to stay exactly where you are. You think that by not deciding, you are keeping your options open, but let's be clear, you are not. You are actively choosing the status quo. Every single day you delay, you are just doing it passively so you do not have to feel responsible for the choice that you are invariably making, because it is indeed still a choice, and that choice still has consequences.
And whether you are paying for it or not, you have made a decision And we can talk for just a minute about the cost to your business of paying this tax. A company, at the end of the day, is the sum of the decisions its leader is willing to make and execute. And when the CEO cannot decide, the entire organization stalls.
[00:21:00] Your hesitation does not stay yours, it cascades. Your team waits, your project stalls, your momentum dies in the holding pattern that you created. You become the bottleneck, not because you are doing too much, but because you will not make a decision. I think the deepest cost to all of this is actually spiritual, and it is the one that I want you to hear me when I say it.
Every time you label your fear as discernment, you are teaching yourself to distrust the voice of God inside of you. Because you have trained yourself to receive an answer and then to not act on the answer that you received. And a muscle you never use atrophies. So over time, you stop being able to tell the difference between the Holy Spirit's leading and your own anxiety because you have treated them the same way for way too long.
Now, I get it. You wanted to be [00:22:00] careful, but what you are actually doing was building a life where you cannot take action, you cannot move, and you cannot trust yourself, and, and you cannot tell whether the thing you feel is faith or fear. And if you ask me, this is the most expensive thing that the trust tax is stealing from you.
Not the opportunity, your own knowing So hear me when I say this. Learning to move without certainty is not recklessness. It is indeed faith. And to do it, you have to be able to tell the difference between true discernment and fear pretending to be discernment. And of course, you know I got you, right?
True discernment and fear-based delay can look like the same exact thing from the outside. Both of them involve a waiting. Both can sound spiritual and deep, but on the inside, they could not be more different. And there are three ways to actually tell them apart. [00:23:00] Okay, so here we go. First, discernment has peace even when the decision is scary.
Delay has anxiety that never resolves. If your waiting is accompanied by churning, looping, restless dread, then that, my friend, is not the peace of God asking you to wait. That is fear asking you to stay. Second, discernment has an endpoint. It is waiting for a specific thing, and when that thing shows up, it moves.
Delay has no endpoint. There is always one more consideration, one more opinion, one more thing that you can do in order to get a degree of certainty before you take the first step. If you cannot name exactly what you are waiting for and when it will be enough, you are not discerning, you are stalling.
Discernment, if you [00:24:00] ask me, it has peace and it has a deadline. Fear, on the other hand, has anxiety and no end. When you learn the difference, everything changes, or you will call your fear holy for the rest of your life. I don't desire that for you. And the third way you can tell the difference is there's a question that just really cuts through all of it, and the question is simply this: Am I waiting for more information or am I waiting for the fear to go away?
Because if you are waiting for the fear to go away before you actually take the action that you most need to take, you're probably gonna wait forever. Ever heard that phrase, "Feel the fear but do it anyway"? Yeah, that's where that comes from. Because the fear does not leave before you move. The fear leaves after you move.
Again, God will give you more while you're moving than he ever will if you stand still. When you discover that you survived it, that's when the fear moves. Remember, courage is not the absence of fear. Courage is moving while the fear [00:25:00] is still present This is what I know. This is what I have practiced.
This is what I have coached and guided thousands of entrepreneurs just like you through. Now, I wanna really quickly just give you three steps that'll help you move from frozen to faithful so that you can get out of your own way. Again, real quick. Step number one, give every decision a deadline. Number two, stop trying to see the whole staircase.
Faith is taking the first step, period. And step number three, trust the leader who has already given you the answer. You've already prayed on it. You don't have to keep asking God. He heard you the first time. You have already gathered what you reasonably need. You have already felt the pull. So the work now is not to find more certainty, it is to decide to trust the version of you who already knows.
When you have done your due diligence and you are actually still feeling the tug towards something, that tug is not nothing. That is [00:26:00] your discernment. That is your sign. That is wisdom. And very often, it is indeed the voice of God all pointing to the same direction. So stop asking for more confirmation of something that you already heard.
Trust yourself. Trust God. Trust that you will not have been led down the wrong path You're gonna have to trust. The trust tax freezes a different part of who you are depending upon how you are wired. You guessed it, we're gonna talk about the Move to Millions Ascension archetype quiz. Now, if you've already taken the quiz, this is just gonna give you some deeper explanation into your archetype.
If you have not taken it yet, this is your invitation to stop what you're doing and go take the quiz. It's free. It's only gonna take you three minutes, and you can take it right now at movetomillionsquiz.com. Here's what I know. The [00:27:00] reason I created the Ascension archetypes is because I wanted to help people move to millions.
I wanted to help them ascend, and I know that there are things that get in the way. So when you take the quiz, you'll learn which of the five archetypes is yours: performer, producer, path maker, powerhouse, or prophet. There is no right or wrong archetype. They are all ordained and designed by God. The key is that your wiring is going to unlock your biggest breakthroughs yet, and this is why I talk about it each and every episode, 'cause I want you to take the quiz.
I want you to understand your archetype because once you know, oh, the way that I can help you. All right, let's break this down. If you are a performer, you wait for certainty that it will be received well. You will not launch, post, speak, or put it out there until you are sure that you know that it will land because y- the risk of being judged feels unbearable to you.
Your freedom will come in learning to move before you know how it will be received. Because here's what you have to understand. The audience [00:28:00] does not get a vote on your obedience. Yes, there is a reason your strategy feels stalled, and I bet you didn't realize it's spiritual. Discover your divine wiring, which informs how you lead, where you sabotage, and how to shift in order to scale with the Move to Millions Ascension archetype quiz.
In less than three minutes, you'll learn what's really blocking your money, your momentum, and your mission. Take the quiz today at movetomillionsquiz.com. Have you grabbed your copy of the Move to Millions 90-day business growth planner? If not, what are you waiting for? Everything you need to take your business strategically to the million-dollar mark 90 days at a time is included for you.
We've left no stone unturned. It's the same planner our Move to Millions c- mastermind clients are using. Grab yours now at movetomillionsplanner.com. All right, [00:29:00] if you are a producer, hey, producer, you wait behind preparation. You are getting ready to get ready, and once you get ready, you're gonna get ready again.
You will not move until you have the perfect plan, all the data, and you have fully built the system. Your version of the trust tax is analysis paralysis dressed up as due diligence. Your freedom is actually learning that a good decision made now and adjusted later beats a perfect decision that is either made too late or never made at all.
If you are a path maker, hey, path maker, you trust the vision, but you will not commit to one path because committing actually means that you are closing other doors. You think that doing all the things is what makes you abundant, but doing all the things is actually what makes you operate in lack.
Closing doors requires a certainty that you do not have, so you keep your options open, and your [00:30:00] options never compound Your freedom is trusting that committing to one road will not kill your vision. It is actually the only thing that will ever let your vision come into your life experience. If you are a powerhouse, hey, powerhouse, you will not trust anyone else's judgment, so every decision funnels back to you and stalls in the bottleneck of your own certainty.
You do not delay because you are unsure of yourself. You delay because you do not trust anyone else to be sure for you. Your freedom will come in trusting your team's discernment, not just your own. Remember, collaboration. That way, the whole company will stop waiting on you. And last but not least, if you are a prophet, hey, prophet, this is your tax more than anyone else's.
So I want you to know and understand. While you are wired for discernment, which is absolutely a gift, it is also where your fear is [00:31:00] hiding most easily. You wait for the full download before you move, and you spiritualize the waiting so that even your stalling sounds holy. Your freedom is learning that God often reveals the next step only after you take the first one, and that sometimes is the most faithful thing that you can do, is to go ahead and move before your whole vision is clear.
Now, I hope you notice that every archetype is frozen in a different place, but it looks the same, right? The demand for a certainty that is never coming, and I want you to understand that the question that you all need to answer, regardless of your archetype, is what would you do if you trusted yourself completely?
Sounds familiar, right? We talked about that earlier. So how do you actually become the leader who can trust themselves enough to take the next step, to take all the steps? You're gonna have to do that through building the internal trust that [00:32:00] actually lets you act without a guarantee, and that trust is built in community, in covering, and in a space that holds you while you practice moving by and in faith.
This is part of the reason why I created Sanctuary Core. Because the inability to trust yourself is not a strategy gap, it is a capacity gap, and capacity gets built in the right room. Sanctuary Core is where legacy-led CEOs just like you build the trust to lead decisively from discernment instead of from fear Now, I know I created this program, but there is no program like it on the market.
We cover the science, the spirit, and the somatics of becoming the sanctuary, actually feeling safe in your relationships with yourself, with money, with wealth, with leadership and success. If you can get excited about that, join the wait list today at [00:33:00] incredibleoneenterprises.com/sanctuary. Now, before we close, I wanna say this really, really clearly.
Caution is not the same thing as wisdom. Waiting is not the same thing as discernment. Sometimes they overlap, and sometimes your caution is the very thing that is keeping you from the life that God has already approved for you to experience. The Bible says before you were formed in your mother's womb, God knew you and approved you.
Now, you do not have to get reckless But you do have to be willing to move before you can see every part of the puzzle, because that is the only place that faith is going to operate. The clarity that you are waiting for is on the other side of the decision. Once you decide, God and his abundant universe rearranges itself to bring you what you decided, not before it.
So you've gotta make the decision, and the clarity will meet you as you do. Now, there are three things I want you to do as you continue to allow this episode to anchor in. Number [00:34:00] one, you probably already guessed it. If you have not taken the Move to Millions Ascension archetype quiz, do so today at movetomillionsquiz.com.
It's three minutes, it's free, and it will help you to find out exactly where your wiring tends to freeze because you cannot move past the pattern you cannot see. Second thing I want you to do is I want you to name the decision you already know the answer to, the one that got uncomfortable when I said it earlier.
Give it a deadline this week and then go make it. Not when you feel ready, but do it by the date that you actually set. And the third thing I want you to do this week is I want you to share this episode with a CEO in your life who has been stuck in a holding pattern and they keep trying to call it discernment.
You know who they are. They need someone that they trust, you, to lovingly tell them that the clarity is not coming until they move, and that it's time to get in action. Then I want to invite you to tap into your heart energy center. Put your other hand on [00:35:00] your belly or your solar plexus, where your creativity is, and repeat after me.
I trust myself, I trust my discernment, and I trust the God in me. I am ready to move now. I release the need to be certain, and I move in faith. This season is about trusting instead of waiting, and I am ready, I am worthy, and I am capable. Take a deep breath in. Oh, next week we move on to the seventh hidden tax, y'all.
And it is the one almost no one wants to admit that they have been paying because it doesn't look like hiding, it looks like humility. We're gonna get into the visibility tax, the cost of staying hidden. And I'm not just talking about on social media, I'm talking about identity We're gonna get into the truth, the calling, and the version of you that has been keeping yourself playing small, staying quiet, [00:36:00] keeping playing safe because being fully seen feels way too risky and your nervous system does not like it.
We're gonna talk about who you have been pretending not to be and what your hiddenness is actually costing the people who need you right now. The ones who are literally crying themselves to sleep at night and waking up at 3:00 in the morning looking for what it is that you do, but they can't find you 'cause you're hiding.
Trust me when I tell you, you don't wanna miss it. So make sure that you have your notifications on and you subscribe so that you don't miss a second of what I have for you. Until next time, remember, millions are your birthright, and to access them, you need only move. I'll see you guys next time. Take care.
Thank you for tuning in to the Move to Millions podcast. Every legacy-led CEO has a divine design, and yours is waiting to be revealed. Take the Ascension archetype quiz at movetomillionsquiz.com to uncover how you're wired for wealth and what [00:37:00] needs to shift to make your next move with grace and ease instead of hustle and grind.
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